I don't want to do this anymore. I’m sure I’ll be called a bad parent and people will suggest I just leave home; that my kids would be better off without me. I didn’t buy their reasonings of ‘she’s your mom, she’s blood, she had a bad childhood, she regrets it,’ etc. Thanks for the post, and sorry for just pouring everything out. I’ve always prided myself on this. Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total) Author Posts October 21, 2016 at 11:17 pm #118678 dreaming715Participant I’m 28-years-old and told my mom today that I didn’t want to talk to her again. That’s not true. very hard not to want to run away. Jeeze, even Harry Potter is centrically about a mother’s love. What I don’t want is to play the role of a mother than society forces upon me. :'( I cry my eyes out every night as I feel I can't cope any more. Forget what you see on social media about mum’s who rock this parenting gig. Home→Forums→Relationships→Told my mom I didn't want to be in contact anymore New Reply This topic contains 5 replies, has 4 voices, and was last updated by anita 3 years, 5 months ago. I just don't get it.. My child means everything in the world to me.. Society hasn’t fully come to terms with the notion of shitty parents, particularly moms. I keep catching myself missing aspects of my former life. I never wanted children. It was just too much for one person. Reply: I don't want to live with my mom anymore Hello, Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline . My inbox filled and my voicemail shooed callers because it was at capacity. I don’t have the patience for this. It is unfortunate that your mother has not accepted you coming out. Find your group chat here >> start new discussion reply. Bei uns recherchierst du jene wichtigen Fakten und wir haben die I don t want to be me anymore angeschaut. I know I have no choice and I know there's no point to this post. In other words, they won’t just agree to everything you say.I actively sought and prayed for somebody older and wiser than me, who had navigated the shifting sands of motherhood and made it to the other side.In fact, I made it my priority to find someone who would build back into my heart and enrich my season of ‘parenting in the trenches.’ I basically, drank from their fountain of wisdom. I was a single mom of 3 kids when they were, 4, 5 and 7. Maybe with a special someone, family member or close friend. 'I Don't Want to Be a Mum Anymore' ... And although I don't think I will ever say that parenting is easy, I can't ever imagine my life without him. They can be so stressful. This pregnancy wasn’t planned My partner agreed it wasn’t planned but embracing having another baby. I wish I could work 12 hours/day, 7 days a week and come home and snuggle them for 15 minutes at bedtime. We all, at one stage or another, feel lost, alone and discouraged. I need to be self sufficient again. I know I don't have the choice, but I'm so tired of being a twin mom. But, for me this feeling is almost submerged in my mind. I think everyone deserves to have a healthy relationship with their mom and for those of us who don’t, it’s sad. Why can’t I be a mother and engage in hobbies without guilt and a time limit? When I was trying to conceive, I knew I was ready to have a child. “True wisdom comes from taking action and having a teachable heart.”. Why can’t I do the things I used to do without being viewed as less of a mother? a. acsj1015. Required fields are marked *. Wishing you all the best and loads of love for a much better year in 2020. So you're saying you don't like your mom, but it sounds to me that you do love her, or want to, and you really want her approval. Even the moments that are literally shit. Leave Group. I don't know what to do. Five Ways to Handle Conflict In Friendship. Then there’s the pressure to pretend not to be a human being with feelings. It is my desire it will encourage you as well and fill your soul with a sense of assurance and hope. I realised that despite my little people needing so much from me, I was first and foremost their mother and the guardian of their hearts, which meant they were not in charge of my emotions. Update: I'm 21 years old i have a 4 yr old son i love him with all my heart. Great post! It's hard work and DD never smiles. At 66 I wish I was older so I don’t have so long to go. Why are simple things like washing my hair and having a full meal rare luxuries? Since the start of my A-levels 2 years ago my mum has become this dominating, bossy, demanding and aggressive person in my house. But I don’t want to be a "working mom" anymore. I have been feeling guilty about this. Do Singaporeans think of children as people? Share 223; Tweet; Pin 41; These past months, I let my laptop collect dust. I have no peace of mind, just regrets and constant questioning. This is a child almost my height who still can’t put on his own clothes, brush his own teeth or dry himself after a bath. Am hoping that every lady in this planet would have gone through this thought at least once in their life. What To Do When Your Child Needs Psychotropic Medication. We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. I very much want to be her mother. Don't want to live with my mum anymore Watch. I hope that if my daughter becomes a mother, she will look upon the role that mothers of today are stuck in as a bizarre part of history that will never apply to her. I have been like this for 3 years. My adult son (over 30 now) still lives at home due to mental health issues. I would suggest growing up and taking responsibility for yourself and your kid.. Move out of that house if your mother is making you feel that way.. 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